Aspects of life:
Me => Professional => Source => Resource
Me => Responsible son => Dependent Son => Lovable Son
Me => Boy friend => Husband => Self Sufficient father
There can be so many other phases in life which a human passes by…
Today I need to reconsider my goals and desires… what will make me and my stake holders happy…
I would be very happy if I somehow be able to reach higher standards, fame in the society, pride for my parents, pride for my children, pride for my baby runnu.
I will be happy when my betu runnu will have all what she wants in her life. When after 9 yrs she will be out of school, she should get education in Oxford/MIT/Harvard or other good university, When my other siblings look towards me and I am there to solve their problem, when I am managing people, when I am becoming responsible for all the good things, when I am happy in my life.
Question comes when I am happy???
Its not that I am sadist and I am never happy. I think happiness is something which is latent, in there but not yet discovered. Everything mentioned above apparently will make me happy and yes I believe I would be happy after all that... I guess this is what I leaned from others life at least...
The best part of one life is when one is in school... a naive kid!
Every individual should take inspiration from a kid , who back in school is looking at the brick and mortar of the wall, which is too high to cross. Our lives are full of such walls, where we don't know what is behind the wall and what is going to come. The wall in school was not just a wall but was an umbrella which was protecting us from the world, which we couldn't estimate that time. Now when we have just walls, which we will cross and will not be protecting us forever. We will have to be capable enough to watch the steps and cross them before they fall on their own and force us to see the bare, bad, diplomatic, unfaithful world. Lets look for steps with proper ammunitions to fight with the devils. Its just like playing a video came and reaching the castle, where one has to move. Everyone knows that as you move you will have to face the dragon and you cannot kill the devil in one go, but still we all love you play.
We play because wining over so many lil devils gives us the confidence, control over the remote we have in our hand. We play, we enjoy winning and we win. Everyone who plays wins but what about those who don't play...
Those who don't play, do they ever win a game. Will they ever enjoy the victory???
Crossing the wall is just like entering the new castle, next is the victory over the castle, which could be only attained by giving a regular fights.
Crossing the phases in life is thus like playing a video game. You play if you want to win, if not then you will be killed with the very first warrior. BECAUSE LIFE IS A GAME WHERE YOU CANNOT CHOSE TO RESTART OR QUIT THE GAME.
ONE HAS TO PLAY, CHOICE IS YOUR'S WHAT YOU WANT TO BE...
Discover the latent ammunitions you have and use them, definitely you will win.
